NH Dating

A free Discord dating community for New Hampshire. Meet people by talking in group channels, not by swiping. No payments for anything, ever.

We're on a waitlist
The server is still in active development, so nobody is being let in yet. We are accepting applications now and will work through them as it opens.

You apply with your Discord account. Accepted people are added to the server automatically.

Log in with Discord to applyHow NH Dating works
We will need to see your ID
Once you're accepted, a moderator will ask to see a photo ID in a private channel to confirm you're 18 or older. Nothing from your ID is stored. A person looks at it, confirms your age, and the messages are deleted.

How it works

Apply

Log in with Discord and fill out the whole application, including who you are and who you want to meet.

Review

We read every application. When you're accepted you are added to the server automatically.

ID check

A moderator checks your photo ID in a private channel to confirm your age. Nothing is saved.

Your channels

You get channels based on your gender, whether you're cis or trans, and who you're into. Channels with men and women are kept one to one, so you may wait in a queue for a seat.

Stay active

If you go a day without talking in a queued channel, your seat goes to the next person in line. You can rejoin the queue any time.

Private profiles

Your profile stays hidden until you and someone else both agree to connect.